Ultimate Guide: Body Language Secrets to Look Cool

Be that cool guy who everybody wants to be with!

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Body language plays a big role when it comes to appearing charming and charismatic — well; ‘manly’, in some cases, just to stroke some ego! Your body language can show aura of confidence you have and it can help you being a social magnet in parties, meetings, and different occasions. This is why all you amazing lads out there need to be aware of the body language secrets to look cool.

 

  1. Keep one hand inside the pocket, the other one outside the pocket

You do not want to appear as someone who has a lack of confidence by keeping both of the hands inside your pocket. Nobody likes to approach someone who looks not so open and welcoming. By keeping one hand inside your pocket and the one outside is going to make you look attractive and people will know that you have got a personality which is oozing with confidence and charm. Bonus tip: Keep your handshake side outside the pocket.

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  1. Use the power of eye contact

Keeping consistent eye contact while talking and listening to someone is going to show others that you have got an interest. You not only appear easy-going and approachable but it also shows that you have got a vibrant personality.

However, if you feel like keeping an eye contact is a bit too much for your personality or a little hard for you then you can always wear shades. Consider this as probably the most important secret to look cool and interested. 

 

  1. Own up to your accomplishments and do a victory stance

If you have achieved something then do a victory stance because everyone loves people who can express themselves fully. Go ahead and throw your hands up in the air, talk about your achievement and enjoy your victory stance but don’t overdo because it may come across as boastfulness and it has negative connotations. Humility is powerful but if you have achievements then show around as you never know when the next big opportunity knocks in.

 

  1. Don’t use phone as defence mechanism to avoid contact

Nobody likes to approach someone who is always on their phone. This is why you need to let go off your phone when you are around people. Try to converse with those people who are around you and it will help build up your confidence and you will look cool at the same time, and you will eventually avoid making people repeat themselves.

 

  1. Learn the art of smiling at the right time

When you are greeting people do not forget to give your best smile but do not overdo it by smiling too much because then you will end up looking like a creep. Know when you have to smile by keeping the track of people around you and noticing the atmosphere of the gathering. As they say “Life is short, smile while you still have teeth.” This secret to looking cool is going to help you a lot in life in unexpected ways. Always believe in positive energy.

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  1. Keep a balanced and collected tone

Your tone will definitely show if you are confident or not and to make sure you appear cool and calm; you have to keep a balanced tone. If you keep changing your tone, it could be a flag for inconsistency, then the people will stop paying attention to what you are saying.

 

Try these simple secrets to look cool and let us know what other tips have worked for you.

 

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